If only you believed in socionics!02.09.2019

On the latest news in May a message has spread that the popular athlete Raivis Vidzis divorces his wife Aleksandra Čuprika whom he married only a year and a half ago.

Already then in November 2010 it was clear that this wouldn’t be a long lasting marriage. Our prognosis came true faster than we expected. According to sociotypes, Raivis is a Zhukov and Aleksandra is a Don Quixote. They share `collaborative relationship` in which comfort in family life cannot be reached because of certain regularities. Work and sports united then, which created a misleading notion of compatible family life. In family life; however, a completely different compatibility between partners is needed.

Aleksandra as a Don Quixote from the first quadra cannot accept the strict regime and dictate of Raivis – a Zhukov from the second quadra. Zhukov`s dual Esenin wouldn’t mind succumbing Zhukov`s requests. It should be kept in mind that there are no bad traits, they become apparent automatically according to the sociotype. In a compatible relationship the requests of a partner seem natural and self – evident, they don’t require adaption and don’t cause stress.

Raivis admits to have been rough, to have had to shout, which clearly shows that something in his wife`s attitude wasn’t acceptable for him. If each of them had chosen their dual or activator relationship partner for marriage, there wouldn’t have been a reason to shout, raise voice or adapt to the other persons requirements as Raivis admitted to have done. The disagreements led to a mutual decision to get a divorce realizing they are too unsuitable for each other.

In a `collaborative relationship` a long lasting and happy marriage is rare. In most of the cases the importance of material values is what brings people together. In that kind of relationship, spiritual union, mutual understanding and sensitivity can be shared hardly. In a couple like this, both partners are extravert logical types, both sanguine, but what they both need in the opposite – introvert ethical type. In this case, both of them long for a complementary partner – introvert ethical type with melancholic temperament.

An advice for Raivis: look for a Esenin, Hamlet or Dumas sociotype woman!

An advice for Aleksandra: look for a Dumas or Hugo sociotype man!

Only in a tandem like this you will have a harmonica life together and your partner won’t let you down.