Relations of duality02.09.2019

First of all, let us take insight into the relationships among representatives of own quadra. If we compare all possible benefits, we should start with exploring the relationship of duality.

In the 1st quadra, the relations of duality are between Don Quixote and Dumas, Hugo and Robespierre.

In the 2nd quadra, the relations of duality are between Hamlet and Maxim, Zhukov and Esenin.

In the 3rd quadra, the relations of duality are between Napoleone and Balzac, Jack and Dreiser.

In the 4th quadra, the relations of duality are between Shtirlitz and Dostoevsky, Huxley and Gabin.

 

I want to be happy! At least once every person has tried to express, write or shout aloud this message. Even if you had not pronounced it publicly, at least within your mind you had admitted that you desire to love and to be loved.

Lithuanian practitioner of socionics, Igor Kalinauskas, relation of duality considers as relation of idealized teacher and pupil. Only your dual partner may set you partially free from overwhelming burdens in a manner that . I admit that in some cases one who has not gained an experience in dealing with dual partner, may reject him or her. However, we must take into consideration that deeply in your soul there is a need for dual partner.

Dual partner is an opposit to yourself. There are several types of opposition, however dual partner is able to complement you. Dual partner accepts you as a comprehensible, benevolent and ideal friend. He or she may support you instinctively, understand you without words, accept your difficulties and weaknesses, keep calm in situations when others address you with harsh judgments and explode. In this relation every human feels freedom from stress, he or she needs not dedicate time for aligning things, thinking what should be done, how should I say it, as your dual partner is perfectly aligned with you in matters of needs. The presence of dual partner awakes your strengths, makes you more self-confident. It is how every person can naturally become balanced, serene, full of energy.

Through sharing common time and space dual partners unconsciously start imitate behaviour patterns of the partner, their vocabulary becomes very rich, by time they may wonder how did it happen. Virtually they stand in front of others as one, whole and inseparable. It is how introvert feels more confident in public, but extrovert discovers value of inner life. relation of duality makes life comfortable, leads towards welfare and public recognition, develops skills and creativity. The hardest period in the relation of duality is at the beginning when small and minor misunderstandings may appear, however, by time partners recognize mutual benefits that stimulates personal growth. No long-lasting misunderstandings take place in dual relation, as if one feels uneasy, the other one may calm down him or her. However, we have to notice a light exception and condition that dual partners must have similar level of intelligence, otherwise the initial phase of relation will end shortly.

Quite often young people avoid deepening relation with dual partners, sometimes it is due to fact that dual partner is perceived as very ordinary and simple person. Young people are inclined to express judgments too quickly. For the extraverts, the introvert is considered as too slowly, boring, invisible. It is why they prefer extravert partner. However, for the introverts, the extravert is noisy, demonstrative, unserious. So it comes how introvert gets married with other introverts.

Sometimes many people too strictly observe traditional views on choosing partner. There is a common belief that woman must not show initiative towards man, as man deserves it.

However, there are noticeable exceptions that are justified and explained by socionics. Very often introverted logical types, regardless of sex, feel shameful to approach the partner, hesitate to express their feelings and love in verbal manner. Similarly, women of extraverted ethical types, in obedience to social norms, are keeping silence. So they accumulate all emotions inside, tearing themselves. When the patience snaps, they dare to approach to the man. If that happened to the man with whom she has incompatible relation, a man may reject that approach. However, if it happens to dual, this may turn to an excellent starting point. Sometimes a Napoleone woman may hear a compliment from Balzac man – how good it is that you took courage, as I was afraid!

Unfortunately, dual couples are too rare in society. Sometimes people accept advices only when they experience terrible lost or dramatic trauma in soul. Or, after many years, at the last period of life a person may acknowledge that this quiet, slow and timid guy of my class was dual. And now she gets so tired of these extroverts, she dreams about being in presence of calm, balanced man… Alas, life had passed, besides her first love is his wife and their children together.

Unfortunately, dual couples are too rare in society. Sometimes people accept advices only when they experience terrible lost or dramatic trauma in soul. Or, after many years, at the last period of life a person may acknowledge that this quiet, slow and timid guy of my class was dual. And now she gets so tired of these extroverts, she dreams about being in presence of calm, balanced man… Alas, life had passed, besides her first love is his wife and their children together.